Let's chill..

It's late & you get a text from "him". The one who gives you that addictive butterfly feeling, the one with the last name that sounds so good next to your first, that one who you desperately want to call your own but he's "not ready"...yes that one. You read his text & it's one those "let's chill.." or the "what you doing?" text. You already know what he wants so what do you do?? 

Most women don't realize the power we have..we control what happens in a relationship. We easily get caught up in the fact that someone actually wants us! Yes someone adores you, is interested in you, & wants your time..but he doesn't want the commitment. Problem? Mhmmm. If you are talking to a guy & you are giving him EVERYTHING yes I mean sex, is it wrong to still want him to commit? Absolutely not! First, if you want a serious relationship with a guy do NOT give him boyfriend or husband privileges. We all heard the saying "why buy the cow when the milk is free"..yes ladies we gotta stop giving out the milk for free. If you are one of the women who don't want to be tied down in a relationship then you can do what you please..but for the other ladies, we must start setting our own standards. (keep reading)

Sex is powerful & sacred! Men used to have to marry a woman before getting the goods but now we make it so easy for them. It's not about controlling a man with sex, it's about protecting yourself from getting hurt. We can't keep complaining about how men ain't sh*t when we are not requiring them to work for us. You are precious & worth more than gold..he should want to make you his girlfriend, fiance, or wife, make sure he deserves you. I know that there are slores out there who make it hard for us to even request that men commit to us before getting the goods but if he is truly interested in you, cares about you, intrigued by you..then he WILL commit. Oh & he won't commit just because he wants sex, he will do it because he wants all you to himself. Respect yourself & he will do the same. Check out the video below. I love you guys, stay blessed :)